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i'm beyond sleepy this morning, even though i went to bed around midnight.

the cats aren't adjusting as well as we'd hope : (
[livejournal.com profile] autumnsshadow had mentioned that they got into a tiff in my room (apparently, little girl was protecting my closet), and as i rearranged the blanket to go to sleep, a tuft of miko's hair flew up : /
before then, i'd noticed something: little girl will eat, then the two cats would be near each other & she'll hiss at him, and then throw up.
to make sure she'd keep some food down, i put miko in [livejournal.com profile] autumnsshadow's room, and let little girl hang out and eat while i played online for a bit. then, i took her to my room and closed the door for the night, and miko roamed the house. with all luck, this means she's got some nutrients in her system.
she spent a bit of time staring at the doorknob of the closed door - i think this is the first time she's been "locked" into a room... but about 15-20 minutes later she gave up and joined me on the bed. she was adorable about it, too, because she was insisting on curling up against me, and did so in the crook of my shoulder at first.
she stayed curled up against me all night/morning, which felt nice on one hand, and made me sleep lighter on the other, and was very eager to go outside this morning.

i really hope this doesn't last too long. i think she may be letting miko closer to her now, but i'm not sure thats a sign of comfort, considering she was closer to him when they had a spat.

in better news, after some time confusion, i got to see [livejournal.com profile] kaligrrrl last night, and really enjoyed it - first, she seriously rocks, and then she's the best conversationalist i know, which made for a fun, interesting and relaxing time.

now, i need to get through today, and cleancleanclean tomorrow before setting off for the holiday adventure.

Date: 2003-12-23 07:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] devina.livejournal.com
*hugs* It's really stressful when new cats try getting used to each other, I feel your pain. :( I think Mim took nearly a month to get used to Bailey, and she and Moon still don't like each other completely - mostly because Moon's really mean to her. The good news is, the actual spats stopped after a couple of weeks, and they started tolerating each other.

Date: 2003-12-23 07:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elvendoll.livejournal.com
thanks : )

i guess i was hoping that they'd be awkward for a day or two, and would then start to get along, to the continued troubles seem a bit overwhelming - i'm now trying make it sink in that this is normal

little girl has always been such a trooper, too, that while i knew she would be pissy, her being stressed out is something i wasn't expecting... i'm really hoping the puking thing stops, and will prolly experiment with moving her food dish to somewhere she can get more privacy while eating if its still going on when i get back on thursday.

Date: 2003-12-23 08:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pir.livejournal.com
hoping that they'd be awkward for a day or two

In my experience it usually takes longer than that unless both cats are particularly mellow.

Date: 2003-12-23 07:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goat.livejournal.com
I only saw the cats for a few minutes on Sunday, but honestly, they looked like they were doing so much better than other cats that I've seen get moved in together.

Just make sure that Little Girl gets her space (since Miko seems much more other-cat-friendly), and they should adjust with time.

Date: 2003-12-23 07:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elvendoll.livejournal.com
I only saw the cats for a few minutes on Sunday, but honestly, they looked like they were doing so much better than other cats that I've seen get moved in together.

are you referring to more then wednesday and finine?

Just make sure that Little Girl gets her space (since Miko seems much more other-cat-friendly), and they should adjust with time.

*nods*
i think thats why she was eager to go outside this morning...

Date: 2003-12-23 07:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goat.livejournal.com
Not just Wednesday and Finnine (I actually never saw them together, only heard stories), but any cats I've seen put together that were used to being the only cat.

IME with cats, you need to keep them in separate spaces in the living area until they get used to each other's scent, and then have them meet for only a few minutes at a time, just so they don't kill each other...

Be glad they're doing as well as they are.

Date: 2003-12-23 08:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goat.livejournal.com
(oh yeah, and the Bach's Rescue Remedy sounds like a neat idea too!)
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Date: 2003-12-23 07:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elvendoll.livejournal.com
what is it / how does it work?
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Date: 2003-12-23 08:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pir.livejournal.com
Ah, dope up your pet so it doesn't care.

Date: 2003-12-23 08:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elvendoll.livejournal.com
heh...

i think litle girl might start disliking catnip soon, as i only give it to her when something in her environment is about to go topsy turvy...
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Date: 2003-12-23 08:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pir.livejournal.com
You're talking about giving a substance to an animal to reduce stress and such - it's a sedative. It's still drugging the animal if it's an artificial drug or something produced from a natural source.

Personally I give our cats catnip.

there is actually no physical constituents from the flowers left in the water

If that was true then it would be... water.

Date: 2003-12-23 08:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elvendoll.livejournal.com
huh, ok...

is it something to be dropped into their water?

Date: 2003-12-23 07:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] halo.livejournal.com
Egon and my parents' new cat really hated one another for a few days, but seem to have settled down... fighting just sort of transitioned into playing. So hopefully, it'll just be a matter of time for your cats, too.

Date: 2003-12-23 01:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kaligrrrl.livejournal.com
it was lovely to see you too! *mwah!*

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